Then learn to speak, not talk, to seduce, not reduce... learn to please her, not yourself. The first thing you must understand, is it's not about you, it's about them. Make them feel special, make them feel desired, and soon you'll find you're enjoying yourself, and they're giving themselves to you... Like Azeria here... she very much wants to make mommy happy, you know why? Because she's finally learned that making me happy, makes her happy.... haven't you dear?